I am a single guy looking for a FWB relationship, and hopefully it will turn into my last love. 😊 ONS are a turn off to me. I am a little old fashioned for a site like this, because I want to get to know someone before having sex with them. The way I think, the brain is the biggest sex organ, and for the best sex, you should get familiar with your partner’s brain! In life, in and out of the bedroom, I feel most comfortable when I am being the leader, in control, dominant. While I do have plenty of toys and decades of experience using them, BDSM is NOT the focus of sex for me. A man can be more controlling and EXCITING of a woman’s inner self by the look he gives, the tone of his voice, his choice of words, his gentle, firm, or rough touch than the use of any toy!!!

My Ideal Person The following is what I have been through, so you understand what I am looking for in an ideal woman. When I was in high school and college, I discriminated. I discriminated against any woman that was not blonde and petite. 😊 I married at 31 and then found out 6 months later my wife was bipolar. Then 2 years later when she was 33, she had a radical mastectomy because of breast cancer. She fought the cancer for 9 years so our son could get to know her.

After what I have been through, I know I looked over a lot of GREAT women in my younger life because they didn’t have the ideal looks! We can’t choose our genes, but we can take good care of ourselves, which is what I now look for in a woman. Also, I realized what really turns me on is the mental and emotional connection I have with the woman. My first wife was the complete package, and honest. Unlike my second wife, who lied to me to get married, and when I found out the lie, I divorced her after 15 months, which was13 years ago.

My list of preferred traits in my ideal woman, in order of highest priority, YOU:
Honest
Keep your word
Good in bed
Good sense of humor
Sexually submissive