Hello! I am a 54-year-old science fiction and computer geek in my regular life. In my private life I am a swinging sex-positive poly dominant rope top. I am part of the Seattle-area sex positive and swinging communities, as well as the Seattle BDSM community. While I am a rope bondage top and a pleasure Dom, I do not require either bondage or domination in my affairs. (Pleasure is a different matter. ;) As a rope top I do anything from the lightest bondage to suspensions from the ceiling. My evil and selfish long term goal is to make all women have sex with me whenever I want. As part of this evil plan, I want any woman leaving my bed to say, "Wow. I have GOT TO do that again!", and then tell their friends.

My Ideal Person I do not have an ideal person exactly. I am poly exactly because I don't want just one ideal.

I do prefer women who are not just interested in open sexual relationships and/or one time fun but who are, when in the right situation, openly uninhibited. One of my favorite quotes about sex is, “Darling, a true lady takes off her dignity with her clothes and does her whorish best. At other times you can be as modest and dignified as your persona requires.” Points if you recognize the quote.

Fun in the big outdoors (not just sex) and going on adventures is a plus. For a long term relationship a "happy subby slut" would be a very big plus.

Tell one of your favorite sexual fantasies. Don't hold back!:
Several women cover each other in oil and with each
other. Suddenly men run in and try to take the lubed and struggling
women. Any woman who "loses" switches sides as soon as he
is done fucking her and helps capture the other women. Last
woman is held down by the other women and everyone has her.

What location do you fantasize about for a sexual encounter?:
A bed, A rollercoaster, The beach, A moving vehicle (i.e. car), The middle of a park, An airplane, A dark back alley, A movie theatre, The stands at a sporting event, A remote wilderness spot, Under a waterfall, My desk at work, A swimming pool or hot tub, A store dressing room, An elevator, A hotel room, No particular place, Anywhere

What types of sexual activities turn you on?:
Giving Oral Sex, Receiving Oral Sex, Anal Sex, Toys (Vibrators/Dildos/etc.), Light Bondage, Hard Bondage, Spanking, Role Playing, Threesomes, Slave/Master, Mutual Masturbation, Voyeurism, Handcuffs/Shackles, Blindfolds, Massage

What factors are most important to you when looking for a sexual partner?:
Sexual experience, Same/similar fetishes, Experience in a certain role (top/bottom; master/slave), Open to ménage à trois and/or orgies, Sexual appetite, Willingness to freely discuss and try anything, Agreeable to a commitment free sexual relationship, Creativity/Kinkiness level, A little of each

Have you ever had cybersex?:
I have cybersex quite often.

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