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Two sides of the coin. 3/3/2005
I´ve read alot of the articles here about dating safety, and
to add, even though there are a-holes out there, I myself
am one, I do not want a persons home number or home address
or even go to their house just from the first email I receive
from them.Myself, I would feel uncomfortable going to
someones house that I just met.I tried it once, and we had
are fun, dont get me wrong, but I ...
1 Comments, 242 Views,
23 Votes
,3.13 Score
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if you only knew... 3/2/2005
If you only knew that almost 83% of the people on this site
is the same person would that make a difference. Her name
is Mildred Sassity. She's 53 and a librarian in Cedar
Rapids. In her spare time, she assumes the mantle of about
3, 456 different profiles and returns e-mails and makes
up these great profiles. So don't worry, you will probably
never meet Mildred anyway.
2 Comments, 448 Views,
23 Votes
,3.36 Score
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What do you do as precautions? 2/26/2005
I mostly won't meet people unless we agree on a place
where there are lots of people areound, such as the college
campus. What about the rest of you?
0 Comments, 200 Views,
15 Votes
,3.13 Score
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Told You That B#t%h Is Crazy!!!! 2/12/2005
It's always the beautiful ONES
Well.. I would have hope that one of my friends would have
given me a warning or something. It's going on week
FIVE and I still can't get her to go away. The 1st time
I saw her was at this but that I had just started going to.
She was yelling at some guy that made her mad. Makin a scene
at that. Red flag, or at least it should have been. This was
about two ...
2 Comments, 277 Views,
20 Votes
,1.21 Score
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Condom Breaking 2/11/2005
How can you tell if your condom might have had a little tear
in it, even if you can't see it?
2 Comments, 325 Views,
11 Votes
,0.36 Score
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Password Protected 1/31/2005
When meeting for the first time, it's always best to
meet in a very public place. I usually try to find a restaurant,
bar, even a shopping mall where I know someone who works
there. That way, if trouble is brewing you can always run
to them for help. Another thing that works really well is
using a trustly old password approach. Make sure you've
told someone where you are going. Dial ...
1 Comments, 173 Views,
20 Votes
,4.78 Score
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the first date first meeting 1/31/2005
when you have talked to someone online and are ready to meet
in person. meet in a public place. if they dont want to then
drop them quick. they are hiding something.
get their phone number and call it. tell them you are letting
a friend have it and his name.
try to meet somewhere where you know someone so they will
be able to keep on eye on you to see you are okay. introduce
your date ...
1 Comments, 179 Views,
33 Votes
,5.63 Score
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public 1/30/2005
Definalty a public place that you are familliar with on
the firstdate..it make you feel more secure.
Always take ur own car..this can be akward because of the
well no need to take 2 cars and waste gas or add more crap to
the air..
And well if you feel any pressure BOUNCE on home
1 Comments, 125 Views,
22 Votes
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what can we do better 1/25/2005
as men what can we talk about during a conversation at a bar
to entice your interests more?
1 Comments, 146 Views,
7 Votes
,1.51 Score
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Letting Friends Know 1/19/2005
I usually let at least three friends know when I'm going
to meet an online friend. I tell each one to call me at a different
time within a hour to two hour time frame.
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This way if things go well, I'm alone. And if things
don't go too well, I can have a drink and think about
what could have been done differently.
0 Comments, 133 Views,
9 Votes
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Married, , wonderful husband but still looking 1/14/2005
I am married, with a wonderful husband, who does everything
for me, he will even kiss the ground where I walk on, but when
it comes to sex, he always reached climax before I can even
get geared up. And then he is done, go to sleep and not even
bothering how I feel. If this happens once or twice fine,
but not all the time. He does not communicate with me much,
talks more to the than to me, ...
0 Comments, 60 Views,
104 Votes
,8.42 Score
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Be safe 1/9/2005
I am extermely cautious who I date, the men I date are recommended
by friends. First time meetings are somewhat a roll of the
dice, but I'm a good judge of a person. Pepper spray
takes the fight right out of a man to give you a head start
if all else fails.
1 Comments, 159 Views,
20 Votes
,2.74 Score
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Tips for meeting online, esp. for the ladies 1/8/2005
When you do decide to meet someone whose company you enjoy
online, meet in a public place and bring your friends. Your
online buddy will understand and accomodate your wishes
if they are honest about their intentions towards you.
If during the date, you decide to go somewhere else, use
your own car.
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Don't agree to hiking dates or meetings in remote areas
until you know ...
1 Comments, 87 Views,
37 Votes
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Remember 1/7/2005
Just a quick reminder guys-this can be a fairly scary thing
for a lot of women/men. A lot of us are new to this,
Start slow-it will pay off in the end.
2 Comments, 233 Views,
45 Votes
,4.69 Score
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Modern Technology and Safety 1/1/2005
Most of us today have cell phones, and we should not be afraid
to use them as a tool in keeping ourselves safe. On a first
date, especially if you have never met before, it is wise
to meet in a public place, and to also make sure someone else
knows where you are. However, you can also use your cell
phone to be even safer...have your friend call you say an
hour into the date...if all is ...
2 Comments, 71 Views,
23 Votes
,5.46 Score
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Her Choice 1/1/2005
I guess being of the OLD school I was raised to respect a females
wishes when it cam to dating. to a point i still hold true
to these values. When I feel the timing is right to ask for
a first date i always try to reasure the date that we will
meet when and where She wants to. I do this so that she will
feel as safe as possible. and I have also suggested that
she bring a friend if she ...
4 Comments, 71 Views,
14 Votes
,5.22 Score
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Safe Sex and LiveHookup 12/31/2004
I read a story in a profile of a young Hispanic woman from
California here on LiveHookup (her profile name is "justyournympho")
who said she met three men at a hotel, and then they immediately
went to the hotel room and had sex. She implied that she spoke
to these men before the hotel meeting. No mention in her
profile of condom use or meeting these guys prior to their
supposed sex encounter. In ...
2 Comments, 172 Views,
58 Votes
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Always let some one know 12/31/2004
Hi, its one thing to be spontanious and free, but its another
to play it un safe. I think its a good idea to always let someone
know where you are at all times, especially if your meeting
someone alone for the first time.
4 Comments, 154 Views,
56 Votes
,4.92 Score
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keep ur head up.... 12/29/2004
I have met 30some people from this site....be sure to "make
a connection" with them, get to know how they act under
all different situations. Talk to them online and on the
phone for a while until u know them well enough to meet up.......BE
CAREFUL!!!!! Some people are really weird......just
make sure you know what your doing....
1 Comments, 156 Views,
62 Votes
,8.44 Score
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DO's for safe dating 12/25/2004
Take the time to get to know someone at first by phone is a
great way to start talk a few times then if comfortable set
up a meeting in a public place or club safety is best policy
always.
7 Comments, 107 Views,
74 Votes
,7.71 Score
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WE agree 12/23/2004
After much discussion with my wife we agreed on some guidelines
if our "Date" ever happened, they seem like
words to live by...Did we miss anything?
1. Meet in a public place.
2. Always wear what they are not looking for so you can walk
away if they seem "Shady".
3. NO ..If you want you can give them the number
of a restaraunt you'll be at.
4. NEVER GO TO "THEIR" PLACE, always use a ...
5 Comments, 350 Views,
43 Votes
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what's too much to ask? 12/15/2004
i'm having a very difficult time finding ways to bridge
the gap between flirting, building an email friendship
and simultaneously determining the safety practices
and history of the people (men) i'm communicating
with. it seems to me that meeting from an anonymous state
would make thid dialog the most obvious first steps yet
it still seems so taboo to mention, as if there's aconversation ...
3 Comments, 38 Views,
34 Votes
,2.61 Score
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Background check 12/13/2004
Would you invest in a background check for someone you met
on here? It's probably best, esp. for the ladies.
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http://passion.com
professional service providing background investigations
and personal profiles. Some of the information they will
check into for you - SSN, marital information, addresses,
, relatives & associates, property
deeds, bankruptcy, judgments, liens, ...
0 Comments, 104 Views,
19 Votes
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is there a sex addicts help centre??? 12/8/2004
Is there such a thing as too much sex?
To me, No there is never enough.
When do you know you have a problem?
Is it when u lay in bed half the day naked writhing in pleasure?
Or on your knees with a hot cock in your mouth in the middle of the kitchen, dark roads, cars and anywhere u can get it?
Sex is my life… it’s all-good but never enough.
Anyone have any ideas?
Like 2 ...
2 Comments, 44 Views,
29 Votes
,5.25 Score
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Sad isn't it.... 12/7/2004
You talk to someone... you think they're great...
So why not meet *and here it's all about sex* but even
in normal settings...
You have to prepare..
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1. ALWAYS.. ALWAYS tell your friends where you'll
be and until when.
2. Limit the 1st date, to drinks or coffee in a public place.
(If goes well you can always meet again for longer somewhere
else)
3. Always set up a ...
1 Comments, 52 Views,
58 Votes
,8.77 Score
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condoms 12/1/2004
no glove no love.....get it got it good. there is some dirty
shit out there. be carefull
1 Comments, 10 Views,
51 Votes
,8.96 Score
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lets join 12/1/2004
Hi just checking this thing really works???
2 Comments, 16 Views,
41 Votes
,4.57 Score
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Best way 12/1/2004
I'm 50 and never been with a man is there any one that
can tell me how I should let the first man enter my ass{ie}
standing and what type lude should I use. THANKS
2 Comments, 57 Views,
33 Votes
,3.79 Score
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What every woman should know and practice 11/20/2004
Don't Be A Crime Victim!
I am sending this to every woman I know, ,please read it
and pass it on to all your female friends, ,
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Some time ago, I attended a personal safety workshop, and
it jolted me. It was given by an amazing man, Pat Malone,
who has been a body guard for famous figures like Farrah
Fawcett and Sylvester Stallone. He works for the ...
1 Comments, 61 Views,
42 Votes
,8.24 Score
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Survival signals for women 11/20/2004
The Gift of Fear
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and Other Survival Signals That Protect Us From Violence
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By Gavin de Becker
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The following is taken from pages 210-212.
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There are many reliable pre-incident indicators associated
with spousal violence and murder. They won't all be
present in every case, but if a situation has several of
these ...
1 Comments, 48 Views,
35 Votes
,7.29 Score
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